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Frequently asked questions
Start with the essentials: consent, privacy, communication and practical safety.
A broad term for intentional adult relationships in which lifestyle, support, companionship and expectations are discussed openly.
Relationships between consenting adults are legal. Consent cannot be purchased, and members must follow all applicable UK law.
Adults aged 20 or over who accept the community standards. Age and identity checks may be required.
This static concept presents free profile creation. Any future paid features should be disclosed clearly before purchase.
An established adult man who values an intentional relationship and may bring generosity, mentorship or shared experiences.
An adult who chooses an intentional relationship with a more established partner and brings their own personality, ambitions and companionship.
Directly, calmly and before assumptions form. Discuss time, privacy, exclusivity, affection and practical expectations.
No. Gifts must be voluntary and never create entitlement to attention, intimacy or continued contact.
Use available platform verification, video chat and public meetings. No badge eliminates the need for judgement.
Never share banking security details, buy gift cards for strangers, pay an upfront “release fee” or move money through your account.
Choose a well-staffed public venue, use separate transport and tell a trusted person your plan.
Yes. Respectful adults of all orientations and gender identities are welcome.
End contact, preserve relevant messages and use platform reporting or contact support. Contact police if you face immediate danger.
Limit identifying details, use unique photos where practical, control visibility and avoid sharing your home or workplace early.